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iPhone 13 screen cracked? Here's how Apple stops Face ID working if you try to fix it yourself

iPhone 13 screen cracked? Here's how Apple stops Face ID working if you try to fix it yourself




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Sugar’s Bad Rep Is Worse Than The Sweet Stuff Itself

Is sugar really addictive? It's better to have a low-sugar diet instead of a full sugar detox for both your mind and body health.




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Adolescent literacies and the gendered self : (re)constructing identities through multimodal literacy practices

Location: Electronic Resource- 




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Breathing: The Master Key to Self-Healing

Breathing: The Master Key to Self-Healing




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Genocide Recognition by Itself Is Not Enough

Genocide Recognition by Itself Is Not Enough



  • Armenian
  • Assyrian and Hellenic Genocide News

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COVID and bird flu are rising. Here's how to keep yourself safe

Doctors urge people who are experiencing respiratory problems to see a medical professional who can check their symptoms and test to determine what their illness is.




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Brett Favre, testifying at welfare fraud hearing, reveals he has Parkinson's

Brett Favre, 54, says he has Parkinson's disease while testifying before a House committee about welfare fraud in which he was allegedly involved in Mississippi.




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When I Find Myself In Times Of Trouble, Mother Mary Comes To Me.... Please Donate

“When I find myself in times of trouble, mother Mary comes to me, speaking words of wisdom, let it be. And in my hour of darkness she is standing right in front of me, speaking words of wisdom, let it be. Let it be, let it be, let it be, let it be. Whisper words of wisdom, let it be. And when the broken hearted people living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be. For though they may be parted there is still a chance that they will see, there will be an answer. let it...




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Accept C.O.D. for self-collection

We have expanded our payment engine to accept C.O.D. (self-collection). This payment mode is only applicable to local shoppers in Singapore.

Other payment methods are Worldpay (credit card), PayPal, Western Union, Interbank Funds transfer (ATM, Internet banking, Telegraphic Transfer) and Non-electronic payment (cheque, bank draft, money order, postal order).




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The downtown Spokane doom narrative is self-reinforcing; sharing a different story about our vibrant downtown could be, too

The narrative goes something like this: Downtown Spokane is in decline, is unsafe, is a hotbed of crime and unsavory activity…



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Tiffany Haddish Walks Away From One-Sided Love in Ty Dolla $ign's 'By Yourself' Remix Video

In the music video, the 'Girls Trip' actress joins the 'Paranoid' rapper to celebrate her freedom after not getting any love in return from her male love interest.




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Jamie Lee Curtis Backs Will Smith's 'Dad Bod' Post With Reminder of Realistic Self Acceptance Goal

In a since-deleted post on the photo-sharing site, the 'Halloween' actress joins 'The Pursuit of Happyness' actor to discuss body positivity and health issue.




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Jamie Lee Curtis Backs Will Smith's 'Dad Bod' Post With Reminder of Realistic Self Acceptance Goal

In a since-deleted post on the photo-sharing site, the 'Halloween' actress joins 'The Pursuit of Happyness' actor to discuss body positivity and health issue.







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PGA supports Air Ambulance golf day at the Belfry

Charity support from top golfers.




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FSSAI steps up scrutiny on quick commerce companies over product shelf life

India's food safety regulator directed e-commerce and quick commerce companies to follow shelf life guidelines for packaged food deliveries. The regulator emphasized a minimum remaining shelf life of 30% or 45 days upon delivery. This action follows complaints about companies not disclosing expiry dates. The regulator stressed the importance of clear expiry dates and adherence to labeling regulations.




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Elf Beauty lifts annual forecasts on resilient cosmetics demand, shares up

Net sales rose 40% to $301.1 million for the quarter ended Sept. 30, compared with analysts' average estimates of $285.8 million, as per data compiled by LSEG.




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7 August is the final day for self-nominations to the Mefi Steering Committee! (Wherever you are)

Again, we say hello! Just a reminder that the self-nominations for the inaugural Metafilter Steering Committee (SC) close on August 7th! The purpose of said committee will be to develop and implement site policy, code updates, and ensure the financial health of the site, i.e. help guide the direction of the overall site and act as the voice of the community. Interested? Come over to Metatalk to view details and learn how to apply by August 7th!




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'Not A Snitch, A Hero': Father Of Slain Atlanta Girl Begs Killer To Turn Self In

Secoriea Turner, the 8-year-old girl shot to death July 4 near the burned-down Wendy's in Atlanta, had nothing to do with ongoing protests against police brutality, her family's lawyers say. At a news conference Monday, Secoriey Williamson, the girl's father, begged for anyone with information to come forward. He even played to the conscience of his daughter's killer, pleading with the shooter to come forward.




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A Self-hosted, video streaming player that lives in a web page?

For "reasons" (including SUPER-sucky customer service), I want to ditch my paid streaming media player service. Lets call it...JillyWillyPlayer. My sites have been using it for over a decade. I don't need hosting and I'd like to find a more...2024 solution.

I already host all my video files and they exist only on my server. I have my own bandwidth et-al. All I'm really paying JillyWillyPlayer for is the streaming media player that is inside my customers' desired browser.

I don't need a library system (have my own), or a 3rd party server (again, I host all my own and my own bandwidth), I don't need anything that will serve an ad, all I need really is the web-based streaming player.

Click the link ->new window opens with the player in it with the indicated video ready to stream (i.e. not download).

I was looking at Jellyfin and OpenStreamingPlatform but im not sure I need/want ALL that these can do, or if they just do the one little thing i'm looking for.

Free isn't necessary. I'm willing to pay a license or a one-time purchase thing.

Any thoughts, advice or recommendations, gang?




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Karin Elfving, periodista suiza, habla sobre el país europeo




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Finding oneself through sound, dance and family

A documentary brings the sounds of nature into an Australian prison, a queer dancer tries to make space for other LGBTQ performers, and what it’s like when your grandfather is revered as a saint by his church.




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Cancer taught me the hard truth about speaking up for myself

As a little girl, Jennifer Fotheringham was shushed for asking about cancer. As a grown woman, she was dismissed for asking about a mammogram. Now as a cancer survivor, she knows not to be silenced.



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Can owning a dog be a 'selfish' pursuit? This academic thinks so

The way dogs are portrayed in literature reflects the problems in our real-world relationships to canines, says PhD student Molly Labenski, who says people want animals in their lives as “accessories” that can be easily discarded.




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The US Is a Civic Desert. To Survive, the Democratic Party Needs to Transform Itself. | The Nation

The Democratic Party should jettison its consultant class and move toward a local-membership model that would help to rejuvenate civic life across the country. via Pocket




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The WIRED Guide to Protecting Yourself From Government Surveillance | WIRED

President-elect Donald Trump has promised to deport millions of undocumented immigrants. He’s vowed to jail his political foes and journalists. A Republican-controlled government could further restrict abortion and transgender rights. via Pocket




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Space craft will take a selfie on the moon

AS a boy, David Shteinman watched the Apollo mission with wonder. Now the industrial engineer is the only Aussie taking part in a race to land a robotic craft on the moon.




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Helft Twitter-volgers Geert Wilders blijkt nep

De Nederlandse fractievoorzitter met de meeste Twitter-volgers is Geert Wilders. Volgens Twitteraudit is de helft van die volgers echter nep. Toch is Wilders dan alsnog de meest gevolgde fractievoorzitter.




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At The Opera, Ottorino Respighi"s "Belfagore" (1989), July 15, 2023

Tune in at 8pm tp hear an At The Opera debut of Ottorino Respighi's Belfagor staring Sylvia Sass.




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CKY's CHAD I GINSBURG Responds To ALIEN ANT FARM's DRYDEN MITCHELL: "Nothing Wrong With Defending Yourself From A Bad Guy"

"I felt a physical threat and had I not tried to avoid the attack, I would have been assaulted."





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Aurora 7-Eleven security guard acted in self-defense when he shot man and won’t be charged, DA says

After a months-long investigation, the 17th Judicial District Attorney’s Office and the Aurora Police Department determined the security guard fired his weapon in self-defense and was “legally justified” in his use of force.





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Are You in Favor of Self-Determination in Mediation?

What about Mom and apple pie?  For or against? Most people take for granted that all these things are indisputably good (at least in theory) though we usually don’t think much about why. Not so with Andrew Mamo.  He recently published Unsettling the Self:  Rethinking Self-Determination in Mediation, which deeply analyzes the meaning of self-determination. … Continue reading Are You in Favor of Self-Determination in Mediation?




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Attorneys, Mediators, and Self-Determination

Posting my short article, The Important Role of Attorneys in Promoting Parties’ Self-Determination in Mediation, on the NYC-DR listserv prompted several reactions. This post highlights and elaborates some points in my article. Why Law School Faculty Should Increase Instruction in Mediation Representation I’m a retired law professor who mediated and taught mediation for years.  The … Continue reading Attorneys, Mediators, and Self-Determination




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Boxing Legend Evander Holyfield To Fight Vitor Belfort After Oscar De La Hoya Contracts COVID-19

Holyfield will fight Belford on September 11.




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SteelFox Trojan

What kind of malware is SteelFox?

SteelFox is a trojan – specifically, a malware bundle with its primary components including a data stealer and cryptocurrency miner. SteelFox infiltrates systems through a sophisticated infection chain.

This trojan has been around since at least 2023, and it was noted being proliferated under the guise of illegal software activation tools ("cracks"). The SteelFox campaign is active worldwide, with the most infections registered in Brazil, China, Russia, Mexico, United Arab Emirates, Egypt, Algeria, Vietnam, India, and Sri Lanka.




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How To Self-Publish A Book?

Writing is one aspect, but if you want people to recognise you, you must publish your work so that a larger audience may see it. To publish a book, the first and most obvious step is to write one. After you’ve finished writing the book, proofread it for errors. Create a title that is both ... Read more

The post How To Self-Publish A Book? first appeared on Storytellers Unplugged.




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Get Yourself The Best WoW Boost Experience -- Here Is a Guide on How to Make It!

When it comes to World of Warcraft, the grind for gear, levels, and achievements can sometimes feel overwhelming. That's where boosting services come in, offering a shortcut to success while allowing you to skip the tedious parts and focus on... Tagged as:




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The Healing Process of Remorse and Self-Forgiveness * Wicca-Spirituality.com

 


Although often confused with guilt and shame, remorse is actually a much higher calibrating "emotion." It's the 21st Century alternative to feeling bad about yourself, and making others around you feel bad too.


It not only feels better and helps you move forward in your life, but it is healing for the Earth... and as we ride the 2012 Transition, Mother Earth needs all the help we can give her!


This article explains how it works, and why you are worthy of forgiveness.

 

Remorse is a method to heal yourself, and others, after making a mistake.


After all, anything that brings a feeling of remorse is a mistake -- just a mistake. Did you know that's the origin of the word "sin"? "Sin" was an archery term; it means missing the mark. That leaves a lot more possibility for positive growth, doesn't it!


So you don't need to berate yourself for eternity. There is nothing to berate yourself for if you didn't know any better, or if you did the best you could.


And I believe we always do the best we can, with what we have in the moment.


We're not perfect. Sometimes we do things we're not proud of. But, in the moment, that was undoubtedly the best that we could do.


Maybe you gave in to your meaner impulses. If you could have held yourself to a higher ideal in that moment, you would have done so. What would you have to gain, by not?


Maybe you didn't know how to do better. You can only work with what you know.


God does not expect you to know what you do not yet know!


For whatever reason -- fatigue, stress, anxiety, confusion, distraction, etc -- maybe you didn't do the best you hoped for. Maybe it wasn't as good as you could have done another day.


But you obviously did the best you could in that moment.


Why would anyone do less than that?


God doesn't need you to burn in hell for it, not even the hell of your own harsh thoughts. She only wants you to learn from the process, and to use it to grow. That's what remorse is all about.

 

There are four parts to the process of remorse.


The first part is a pang in your Heart. There is an energy there, call it an emotion if you like, that signals you are not happy with your actions.


From here, many people get derailed into guilt, instead of continuing the process of remorse.


The second part is the most important, the core of remorse...


You accept that you made a mistake. And you make an unemotional, practical assessment of your actions.


When your actions and choices don't live up to your ideals or ethics... you figure out how you could do better, discover what was moving in you (probably subconsciously) that caused that action, and -- here's the critical bit -- resolve to do better next time.

Remorse is calm and determined. Rather than destroying your self-respect, remorse enhances it. It provides you with the opportunity to grow, to live up to your ideals.


It recognises that within you there is a perfect being, capable of the best.


And that there is always another opportunity to try.


Contrast that with shame, which says that you are worthless and hopeless. There's just nowhere good to go, from there!


Remorse doesn't take the mistake personally. It sees an action as wrong, but not you as a person.


Remorse knows that people can't accurately, honestly be judged in terms of "wrong" and "bad."


The next step is always making amends. You must undo the error, to the best of your ability. And apologise, if it won't make things worse.


We must be clear -- this step has nothing to do with being forgiven by another person. Whether they forgive you or not is about them and their process, and is not about you.


To seek someone's forgiveness when they aren't ready to give it can be a further harm.


You fix the mistake if you can. That is the only purpose of this step.


Inherent in this process is self-forgiveness. You see a mistake, you acknowledge it, you figure out what went wrong, you fix it if you can, and you determine to not make that mistake again.


When you've done all that, forgiveness is a lot easier.


You can forgive yourself, because you know you aren't a bad person who intentionally did wrong... and because you are doing your best not to slip up that way in the future.


No one is perfect. No one is expected, by the Divine, not to make mistakes. On the contrary, that's often how we learn and grow.


That's all the Divine wants of you. Not perfection. But learning and growing from your slip-ups.


So you can accept that you did the best you were able to, at the time. And forgive yourself, for being human and humanly fallible.

 

If you get stuck in guilt, look for the underlying shame. Shame is like Velcro to guilt. It tells you that you deserve to feel terrible guilt, that you are not worthy of forgiveness or compassion or kindness.


But shame LIES.


You are worthy of forgiveness, because you are not a flawed person.You are Divinity tasting life as a mortal individual -- nothing else.


It doesn't matter what your family or coworkers or boss thinks of you. It doesn't matter how you've been treated by others -- that's nothing to do with YOU, that's all about the (human) blindness of others.


You are infinitely worthy and loveable!


And when others can't see that it's only because they haven't realised that they are infinitely worthy and loveable. When people get tied down, in their minds, into one little frail animal body and one small human life, all kinds of such misconceptions arise!


But it's not the truth.


The truth is that you are eternal -- learning and growing and polishing yourself on challenge after challenge, life after life.


The soul that is truly you is infinitely worthy and Divine. The body and mind you think of as you are only a costume that put on for a while, and then point aside, to go home for dinner and a bath, a good rest, to get up and come play again.


So how do you as a mere mortal forgive yourself?


The same way you forgive anyone... With compassion for your human frailty: you really are doing our best with what you have. With perspective: understanding that this life is a playground and schoolroom, and not the life-or-death struggle it seems. With determination to not make the same mistake again.


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Why do I call myself a Pagan?

Don't forget your Supplies!


In this post, I aim to explore why I think I am a Pagan.  This post will not define Paganism or Neo-Paganism more generally.  These terms are very broad, and it is beyond my ability to express what is or is not a Pagan or Neo-Pagan experience.


1.  I am Pagan because I believe that the natural world is ensouled.  I can't define the soul or its capacity or limitations, but I experience it all around me.


2.  I believe that the Abrahamic religions do not have a corner on truth and that their most valuable messages evolved from far more ancient insights which continue to be available to all human beings whose minds and hearts are open.


3.   I believe that all thea/ological discourse about the sacred is just folks talking about something they'll never understand.  I can tell you what I think God/ess is all day and night.  I can be as clever and convincing as hell, but it still doesn't amount to a hill of beans.  The Ineffable will be what it will be regardless of my cheek.  We aren't going to expand or limit Divinity whatever we say, think, or believe.  However, when we limit our conceptualization of the Sacred to that which most closely resembles the powerful, the conventional, and the abusive in our society, then we limit who we are and what we might become, and that's a shame.


4.  So-- I believe that we should be mindful and creative with our theo/alogical language and musings to encourage ourselves to grow toward our potential.  I believe that when we speak of "God/dess" we are reflecting our best hopes for ourselves into the Cosmos.  When we dream of divinity, we can either sanctify all the meanness and injustice humanity has already mastered or we can sing out our human potential for brilliance, warmth, diversity, and love.


5.  Language may only be a construct, but what a construct!  What we build with our language is our choice.  I am Pagan because I am playful with spiritual language.  We need to remember that God is not male.  Nor is God white or European or human for that matter.  God is not even "God".  That word too is merely a construct, a symbol, a signifier. Learning to imagine the Divine in many forms, genders, cultures, species, relationships, and concepts reminds me that the Sacred is not one objective thing or person but is manifest in all life and in all times.  It helps me remember that I can find divinity in unexpected people and unexpected places.  It helps me look for the Sacred everywhere and in everybody.


That's about it, I guess.  My Paganism doesn't define whether I believe in God or Goddess or a singular or plural deity.  It doesn't tell me how I should worship or with whom.  Paganism is not what I believe.  It is what I do.  It is a strategy and a discipline.  It is not an answer to my questions about life and death or the nature of the Divine.  It is a pattern of thought and intent that encourages me to continue asking unanswerable questions.  It encourages me to play and think and wonder and to try as hard as ever I can to understand not the Cosmic Mystery, but maybe just the little bit that resides in me and which is mine to share.







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Protecting Itself From The Impending Cactus Attack

He'll just wait this one out. Cacti can't survive without water, right? ~NSHA




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Trump Posts a Photo of Himself Working on His Inaugural Address and it Gives Spark to a New Meme

Yesterday Trump tweeted a photo of himself hard at work on his inauguration speech and the internet has been having a field day with it. 

It started on twitter with people guessing at what The Donald might be drawing. Shortly thereafter it got a small photoshop battle. 

'What's Donald Drawing' definitely has the potential to catch on.

Get More Trump Memes that are simply tremendous, people tell me how amazing these memes are all the time.