pi Pictures from The Birmingham Tornado: Exhibition By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Thu, 27 Mar 2014 07:55:27 +0000 Photographs and talk by Pogus Caesar on behalf of Friends of Birmingham Museum & Art Gallery. Full Article Acocks Green Art and Leisure Balsall Heath Birmingham Hall Green Moseley and Kings Heath Museums What's on photography Pogus Caesar tornado
pi Villa players visit childrens’ hospice By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Mon, 19 Dec 2022 21:10:35 +0000 Stars’ visit to Acorns brings festive cheer to local children. Full Article Charities Christmas Football Health Acorns Aston Villa
pi Halesowen Muslim community holds a Poppy Picnic for the Armed Forces By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Fri, 21 Jun 2013 06:33:06 +0000 Halesowen community invited to join in a big Poppy Picnic this Saturday to support The Royal British Legion’s vital work for the Armed Forces community Full Article Eating out Food and drink Halesowen Armed forces food health
pi Local singer and Olympic athlete honoured By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Tue, 10 Sep 2013 11:53:35 +0000 Honorary degrees awarded at Wolverhampton ceremony. Full Article Democratise Shopping Warwick What's on
pi Birmingham residents to take part in pioneering venture By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Mon, 05 Aug 2024 12:42:37 +0000 Birmingham Museums Trust launches UK's first Citizens' Jury in a museum. Full Article Community Democratise Local government Museums Birmingham Museums Trust Citizens Jury
pi Stepping back in time at the Black Country Living Museum. By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Thu, 04 Jul 2024 21:36:41 +0000 Helen Annetts enjoys a day out in the past. Full Article Attractions Family Local history Black Country Living Museum Helen Annetts
pi Harborne doctor and nurse duo cycle for hospice care By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Thu, 19 Jul 2018 22:59:42 +0000 Birmingham St Mary’s staff on 100 mile bike ride raising funds for hospice. Full Article Charities Cycling Birmingham St Mary's Hospice
pi Solihull vet to compete at Triathlon World Championships By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Wed, 01 May 2019 23:00:19 +0000 Top vet gains international honours as he seeks world title. Full Article Athletics Cycling Swimming Dr Stephen Baines International Triathlon Union Triathlon World Championships Willows Veterinary Centre
pi World champion cyclist launches free bikes programme By thebirminghampress.com Published On :: Mon, 27 May 2019 23:00:43 +0000 Six hundred bikes to be provided to children in disadvantaged Birmingham areas. Full Article Community Cycling Education Health British Cycling HSBC UK Shanaze Reade The Active Wellbeing Society
pi Amazon developing driver eyeglasses to shave seconds off deliveries, sources say By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Tue, 12 Nov 2024 09:26:55 +0530 Amazon's delivery glasses, the people warned, could be shelved or delayed indefinitely if they do not work as envisioned, or for financial or other reasons. The sources said they may take years to perfect. "We are continuously innovating to create an even safer and better delivery experience for drivers," an Amazon spokesperson said, when asked about the driver eyeglasses. "We otherwise don't comment on our product roadmap." Full Article
pi After e-commerce, it's time for gCommerce: Nazara, ONDC launch new in-game shopping platform By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 12:30:00 +0530 Nazara Technologies and ONDC partnered to launch gCommerce. The platform will integrate e-commerce within games. It will provide Indian game developers with new revenue options. gCommerce will connect players to sellers on the ONDC network. Players can shop without leaving the game. The platform will roll out for developers by Q1, FY26. Full Article
pi Trump picks Fox News host and Army National Guard veteran Pete Hegseth for defense secretary By www.yahoo.com Published On :: 2024-11-13T05:19:18Z Full Article
pi Blackstone in advanced talks to acquire shopping center owner Retail Opportunity By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Mon, 04 Nov 2024 11:17:00 +0530 Blackstone is close to acquiring Retail Opportunity Investments Corp, which owns U.S. shopping centers worth $3.4 billion including debt. Other private equity firms, including Bain Capital, are also interested. The deal could be finalized in the coming weeks if negotiations succeed. ROIC has raised rents significantly amidst high inflation, making it an attractive target. Full Article
pi Premiumisation holds its ground amid inflation spike across Indian consumer market By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Mon, 11 Nov 2024 09:07:34 +0530 Despite the persistent inflation and sluggish demand, several leading FMCG and retail brands are doubling down on their premiumization strategies, reshaping their approach to appeal to discerning customers. Full Article
pi China’s biggest online shopping day fails to return to pre-Covid days high once again By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 13:00:00 +0530 China's Singles' Day shopping extravaganza has lost its sparkle as consumers, wary of promotional tactics and facing economic headwinds, prioritize necessities over extravagant purchases. Major e-commerce platforms have ceased publicizing sales figures, reflecting this trend. Merchants are also scaling back, citing high advertising costs and diminishing returns, prompting a shift towards international markets. Full Article
pi Housing prices keeping consumers away from biscuits? Britannia's Berry flags a concern for FMCG sales By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Tue, 12 Nov 2024 16:04:03 +0530 Britannia Industries reported a 10% drop in profit for the quarter ended September as surging housing costs and low income growth in urban areas led to a slowdown in demand for fast-moving consumer goods. While rural demand has been stable, urban demand has seen a significant downturn, mirroring global trends of consumer confidence returning but wages lagging behind inflation. Full Article
pi Pernod Ricard emerges as largest Indian spirit maker with Rs 26,773 cr revenue in FY24 By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 09:14:26 +0530 Pernod Ricard India Pvt Ltd (PRI) has reported an overall 6.9 per cent increase in its revenue from operations for FY24, and its profit rose 20.9 per cent to Rs 1,620.58 crore, according to the Registrar of Companies data accessed by business intelligence platform Tofler. Full Article
pi Air purifier sales stagnate as marketers fail to capitalise on worsening pollution By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Tue, 05 Nov 2024 08:02:27 +0530 Despite severe air pollution in Indian cities, particularly in Delhi-NCR, the market for air purifiers and anti-pollution personal care products remains small. Consumers perceive limited tangible benefits and sales spike only during peak pollution periods. While some growth occurs after Diwali, the overall market remains stagnant, with some companies exiting or scaling back operations. Full Article
pi Rural continues to be a driver of growth for us and not a drag: Bharat Puri, Pidilite Industries By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Sat, 27 Jan 2024 09:32:36 +0530 Bharat Puri, MD of Pidilite Industries, discusses the company's revenue growth driven by volume growth and reduction in prices due to normalized raw material prices. Puri expects double-digit volume growth going forward and highlights the company's focus on investing in rural markets, which have shown no decline or softness. Pidilite Industries has added 30,000 new retail points to its rural network and sees rural markets as a driver of growth. Puri also mentions the improvement in international business and sustainable EBITDA margins at the higher range of 20-24%. Full Article
pi Pidilite appoints Sudhanshu Vats as MD designate; Bharat Puri to step down By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Thu, 29 Feb 2024 20:08:42 +0530 The board of Pidilite -- maker of Fevicol, Dr Fixit, Fevikwik and M-Seal -- at its meeting held on Thursday approved the appointment of Vats as Managing Director Designate, who is currently Deputy Managing Director of Pidilite Industries. Full Article
pi Pidilite Industries' Q4 Results: Profit rises 6% to Rs 301 crore on lower costs By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Wed, 08 May 2024 13:30:00 +0530 India's Pidilite Industries , which makes Fevicol adhesives and Dr. Fixit waterproofing products, posted a 6.2% jump in fourth-quarter profit on Tuesday, driven by lower input costs. Full Article
pi Bombay HC grants temporary relief to Pidilite in Dr Fixit trademark dispute By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Mon, 27 May 2024 15:04:04 +0530 Mumbai-based Pidilite Industries, the maker of Fevicol and M-Seal adhesive brands, has approached the court to restrain Dubond Products from allegedly infringing its registered trademarks, copyright and passing off for its waterproofing brand Dr Fixit LW. Full Article
pi Volume and value growth to converge in second half of Q2FY25: Pidilite By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Thu, 08 Aug 2024 16:30:42 +0530 Pidilite Industries Ltd. managing director Bharat Puri expects volume and value growth to align in the second half of Q2 2024, with value growth potentially surpassing volume due to improved product mix. The company reported a 9.6% increase in volume and a 21% rise in net profit to Rs. 571 crores. Export sales were affected by geopolitical tensions and shipping delays. Full Article
pi Pidilite invests Rs 5 crore in home improvement & maintenance platform Wify By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Mon, 30 Sep 2024 16:15:00 +0530 Pidilite Industries has invested Rs 5 crore in Wify, a home improvement and maintenance services platform. This pre-series A funding round was led by Capria and Mount Judi Ventures, with participation from Blume Ventures. The investment aims to boost Wify's growth by enhancing its tech stack, expanding services, and strengthening its market position. Full Article
pi Mankind may end up spinning out a winner in consumer brands unit By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Thu, 03 Oct 2024 08:48:20 +0530 Mankind Pharma is spinning off its consumer brands business into a wholly-owned subsidiary, aiming to increase its revenue contribution. Similar moves by Sanofi, Cipla, and Zydus Lifesciences have yielded benefits. Mankind Pharma seeks to unlock investor value through focused marketing and potential stock market listings. Full Article
pi Marico-owned Just Herbs eyes rapid expansion, enhances Indian market presence By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Tue, 29 Oct 2024 10:00:42 +0530 Marico Limited finalized its acquisition of Just Herbs in September 2024, securing the remaining 40% equity in Apcos Naturals Private Limited, which owns the Just Herbs brand. With this acquisition, Just Herb's expansion momentum is poised to accelerate. Full Article
pi Govt steps help boost toy exports, manufacturing; more work needed: DPIIT Secy By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Wed, 12 Jun 2024 16:34:20 +0530 Government initiatives, such as mandatory quality control orders and increased customs duties, have significantly boosted India's toy exports, but further efforts are needed, according to DPIIT Secretary Rajesh Kumar Singh. He mentioned ongoing efforts to include the toy sector in the production-linked incentive (PLI) scheme, with a proposed budget of Rs 3,489 crore, to enhance domestic manufacturing. Full Article
pi When to Use Trailer, Full, and Bonus Episode Types By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 19 Oct 2022 10:00:00 +0000 A while back, Apple introduced the RSS tag to let you mark individual episodes as "bonus," "full," or "trailer" types. Here's what each type means and how you should use them in your podcast-publishing tools. The post When to Use Trailer, Full, and Bonus Episode Types first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio Apple Podcasts bonuses episode types Podcasting 2.0 RSS seasons trailers
pi How to Promote Old Podcast Episodes By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 30 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000 Your podcast episodes don't have to "expire" once the next episode is released. With some strategy, you can use your old episodes to continue growing and engaging your audience! The post How to Promote Old Podcast Episodes first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio automation email list email marketing old episodes promotion scheduling social networks social sharing timeless content
pi Should You Include Episode Numbers in Episode Titles? By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 14 Dec 2022 11:00:00 +0000 If your podcast uses episode numbers, you have multiple options for how to display them. Here's some guidance to help you decide! But I'll give this warning: it's, unfortunately, more complicated than it should be! The post Should You Include Episode Numbers in Episode Titles? first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio Apple Podcasts episode numbers episode titles Podcasting 2.0 promotion RSS SEO serial URLs website
pi Should You Include Seasons in Podcast Episode Titles? By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 21 Dec 2022 11:00:00 +0000 If your podcast uses seasons, you have multiple options for how to display them. Here's some guidance to help you decide! The post Should You Include Seasons in Podcast Episode Titles? first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio Apple Podcasts episode numbers episode titles Pocket Casts Podcasting 2.0 RSS seasons
pi How to Make Episode Artwork Show in Podcast Apps (even in Apple Podcasts!) By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 04 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000 Enhance the experience for your audience by making unique artwork for each episode. But you need to adapt to how each app might display the image. The post How to Make Episode Artwork Show in Podcast Apps (even in Apple Podcasts!) first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio Apple Podcasts artwork chapters episode images id3 editor ID3 tags images Podcasting 2.0 production
pi What Is the Best Day of the Week to Publish Podcast Episodes? By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 11 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000 Should you publish your podcast episodes on a particular day of the week, avoid the weekends, publish on popular days, or something else? The post What Is the Best Day of the Week to Publish Podcast Episodes? first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio competition consistency content niche production promotion schedule
pi What’s the Best Time of Day to Publish Podcast Episodes? By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 18 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000 Does it matter what time of day you publish your podcast episodes? Yes! And here are some tips to help you pick when that should be. The post What’s the Best Time of Day to Publish Podcast Episodes? first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio automation consistency production promotion schedule
pi Should You Include Guest Names in Your Podcast Episode Titles? By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 25 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000 If you ever have a guest on your podcast, you might be wondering where to put their name. Here are some things to consider for your own podcast. The post Should You Include Guest Names in Your Podcast Episode Titles? first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio episode titles guests interviews Podcasting 2.0 promotion RSS SEO
pi Should You Limit Your Available Podcast Episodes? By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 05 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000 As you podcast consistently, you'll build up a back catalog of episodes. But should you keep all of those episodes available? The post Should You Limit Your Available Podcast Episodes? first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio Apple Podcasts back catalog episodes marketing monetization production profit promotion RSS feed SEO timeless content website
pi Trump, defying media predictions, mainly picks seasoned Capitol Hill veterans such as Marco Rubio By www.foxnews.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 03:03:04 -0500 President-elect Donald Trump has gone against media expectations by tapping Marco Rubio, Kristi Noem and a number of other Capitol Hill veterans to fill posts in his second administration. Full Article bc8dc025-a659-536a-88a9-491ba5ea4546 fnc Fox News fox-news/politics fox-news/columns/media-buzz fox-news/person/donald-trump fox-news/politics/executive/white-house fox-news/person/kristi-noem fox-news/person/marco-rubio fox-news/person/joe-biden fox-news/politics article
pi Louisiana woman charged after leaving her child on roadway, falsely reporting kidnapping: police By www.foxnews.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 04:25:05 -0500 Artasia Viges, 24, is facing multiple charges after police said she lied about her son being kidnapped after she left him unattended on a major roadway. Full Article 76c50aa7-f12a-5f1b-9a50-4536b869b88a fnc Fox News fox-news/us fox-news/us/us-regions/southeast/louisiana fox-news/us/crime fox-news/us article
pi NYC : Root some cuttings in water and grow avocado pits in water (New York City) By jobs.metafilter.com Published On :: Sat, 20 May 2023 07:43:20 GMT I'm looking for someone in NYC who will grow some plant cuttings and avocado pits in water for me, for a trade show in August. I'll be exhibiting at a trade show in NYC in mid-August. One of our products is a little tool/display for water propagation of cuttings, succulents or pits such as avocado or mango pits. Normally I grow my own display cuttings and pits for this purpose, and it looks awesome at trade shows local to me (europe). However, I can't fly with live plants to the USA. So, I'd like to hire someone in NYC to root cuttings in water and grow a few avocados and mango pits, so they'll be pretty and leafy by mid-August. I need that someone to be super reliable, so I can be assured to have those plants ready to pick up for the show. They don't need to be a professional, but it'd be great if they've plenty of experience and access to sufficient space on a sunny windowsill to grow these. I would pick up the plants from you on August 11th or 12th. So, if you're already growing cuttings at home, and are interested in this job, memail me and we can discuss details and compensation. Full Article
pi 15 Best Classical Music Pieces of All Time By singersroom.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 05:43:55 +0000 Classical music has an unparalleled ability to transcend time, moving listeners with its emotional depth, technical brilliance, and universal beauty. From the grand symphonies of Beethoven to the delicate piano pieces of Chopin, classical music has shaped the cultural landscape for centuries, inspiring countless generations. But which pieces stand out as the most iconic, the […] The post 15 Best Classical Music Pieces of All Time first appeared on Singersroom.com. Full Article Best Songs Guide
pi Cinema Chat: Cinetopia starts tonight, plus 'Inside Out 2' hits the multiplex By www.wemu.org Published On :: Thu, 13 Jun 2024 08:17:06 -0400 It's Night 1 of the highly anticipated return of Cinetopia! Marquee Arts executive director Russ Collins and Marquee Arts cinema program director Nick Alderink join WEMU's David Fair to chat about this year's Cinetopia Film Festival, along with the latest Pixar film that opens at your favorite multiplex! Full Article
pi Cinema Chat: Cinetopia 2024 continues with the world premiere of 'Love & Vodka,' plus much more! By www.wemu.org Published On :: Thu, 20 Jun 2024 08:27:49 -0400 The 2024 Cinetopia Film Festival rolls on in Ann Arbor! Marquee Arts executive director Russ Collins joins WEMU's David Fair to provide an update on the film fest and the new films opening downtown. Plus, Russ brings along filmmaker and Eastern Michigan University alumnus Heidi Philipsen, who talks about her film "Love & Vodka," which closes out Cinetopia this weekend! Full Article
pi Spies, bikes and smuggled ink: Fighting pollution and the Stasi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Tue, 12 Nov 2024 14:27:25 GMT ...in the Shadow of the Berlin Wall. [BBC] "Named 'Operation Trap', the Stasi's attempted to crush a group fighting for a cleaner environment – and for the right to speak out. The secret police's tactics ranged from interrogations and jail to bizarre mind games. In one incident, informants who managed to infiltrate the environmental movement covertly took coffee from a shared pantry without putting money into the coffee kitty. That plan did not work out. On the contrary: Operation Trap became one of the very rare cases in history in which the Stasi was forced to back down." Full Article BerlinWall environment OperationTrap stasi
pi Kemp Reopens Georgia World Congress Center As Temporary Hospital For COVID-19 Patients By www.gpbnews.org Published On :: Fri, 10 Jul 2020 19:42:34 +0000 With hospitals facing a surge of coronavirus patients, Gov. Brian Kemp on Friday said the Georgia World Congress Center would again be utilized as an alternate hospital as more people in the state become sick with COVID-19. Full Article
pi Despite The Pandemic, Atlanta United Returns To The Pitch By www.gpbnews.org Published On :: Fri, 10 Jul 2020 22:34:27 +0000 Atlanta United is the first professional sports team from Georgia to return to play during the coronavirus pandemic. Major League Soccer suspended play in March less than a month into the season. GPB Sports' Jon Nelson joined GPB All Things Considered host Rickey Bevington to explain why Saturday night's soccer match will be anything but normal. Full Article
pi By fire, water, earth, air in "Coping in a red state" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 00:59:28 GMT Let me tell you a story about a woman I know who votes conservative. She isn't the type of person I would self-select to be a friend, or even a friendly acquaintance — perhaps to my detriment! — because she's well-to-do, right-leaning, and very Christian. But I see her every week and have talked to her quite a bit because she's one of my medical providers.Because I'm disabled, she charges me half of what she'd normally charge; every time I thank her, she says it's no big deal, and that, "Disabled people deserve every break they can get!" This saves me something like $3,000 dollars a year: that's an extra $3,000 a year she could be making, and actually now can't be making, because she's using her hours to treat me instead of other patients. She does a lot of volunteering. Donates a lot of money. She talks about how she's disappointed that certain social services, like disabled transit, fail disabled people, and has a fairly robust understanding of how that plays out because she listens carefully to her disabled patients. In her church, she's taken a stand for welcoming gay members of the community into the congregation, and into leadership positions, and was heartbroken and felt powerless and bewildered when the higher-up leadership blocked several of these things.Whenever I've talked about the difficulties my trans friends are facing, she is genuinely sympathetic to the individual friend, interested in their life, and sad about their suffering, but sometimes expresses the concern-trolling talking points of the right-wing media — I read this as her being very responsive and caring to any unique individual she knows, but not recognizing the perils of the wider systemic discrimination going on.Last time there was an election, I was talking about how conservative funding cuts impact the disabled community, and she expressed a lot of opinions along the lines of, "Of course I think everyone who needs disability income should have it! But don't you realize that the left-wing government will get us further into debt, whereas the conservatives will improve the economy so that we have more government funds to give social programs?" This coming from a person whose personality is very caring, motherly, and friendly, not at all a combative or hostile "debater:" normal people genuinely believe these things because the right-wing media repeats them over and over again.I think that you really are right when you say, I truly believe they are good, kind, thoughtful people. Most of them probably are. But they are being lied to and duped by right-wing politicians, and not realizing the extent to which they're being lied to, because they believe we still live in a reasonable society in which no one would actually lie that much ... so some of the things they're saying must be true, right?They don't realize the extent to which BIPOC, queer, disabled, immigrant, etc. minority groups are in very real danger, and think it must be exaggerated, because they don't really know that many, or the few that they know appear to be doing just fine. And so they vote with their worry and their fear, and their vote does not truly carry through their intentions about the kind of world they wish to live in.This is not, of course, all people. Some people really are deep into right-wing ideology and have entire groups that they do not see as real people. But I find that most of the people I meet are like her: I could have several conversations with them not knowing they are right-wing, and get along with them just fine, because their day-to-day values of how to treat other human beings really are quite similar to mine. But because of their political/cultural education, their sociological and media literacy, and the demographics of people that make up their workplace, friends, and family, they are being fed a different set of facts, a different "reality."This all makes me incredibly sad but also gives me bit of hope, and I hope it will bring some peace to you.I live in Canada, so it's not the same, but I do live in one of the most right-leaning provinces. I really feel what you're going through. I am also surrounded by people I care about — who appear to care about me — who vote in one awful conservative government after another. Stay strong: sending love and sympathy. Full Article
pi By MiraK in "Coping in a red state" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Wed, 06 Nov 2024 22:00:29 GMT My situation is not exactly the same as yours but it is a story of how to get along with friends and family who are on the total opposite side of the aisle, so perhaps you can find something to help you in my strategies. My parents are extremely right wing - in India. It is mortifying and horrifying enough that they are this way but to make things worse my mother is also deep into conspiracy theories on a similar scale and off-the-charts-insane like QAnon in the US. At the same time I am also still engaged in a decade-long effort to build a decent relationship with my parents. So even though this is a self-imposed form of hell, the fact remains I am trying to actively love (as in verb-love) these people whose political opinions horrify me and who ruined their relationship with me in the past by throwing me out of their home as a teenager, abusing me as a child, etc. Step 0 in accomplishing this task is to actually be clear, honest, and fully committed with yourself that you do want to keep and build these relationships. For many years I was on the fence about it and I made no effort at all to build a relationship with my parents. That was fine! If you are here, you are not doing anything wrong! And neither will you be doing anything wrong if you do choose to walk away properly from people who trigger you too much. Many years after not working and fence-sitting, I intellectually realized I wanted to fix things but emotionally I remained uncommitted, angry, resentful, and blisteringly mad about how unfair it was that *I* was the one doing this fixing and building. This was also a valid stage to go through, and I suspect you're somewhere around here, feeling angry and hurt and torn within yourself that these are your fucking choices: to learn how to get along with assholes or else to lose all your family and friends. The unfairness REALLY RANKLES. This is extremely valid and extremely real, and there is no way out of this stage but through it. But sadly, no forward movement will happen FOR YOU EMOTIONALLY in this phase, as far as making your peace with your situation goes. (Also no forward movement will happen in fixing the relationship but that is not necessarily a bad thing, if you're in this stage.) Accomplishing Step 0 - becoming fully and truly committed to building and maintaining these relationships - is a hue, huge task in itself. I would strongly encourage you to work with a psychodynamic therapist or some other modality that pays attention to childhood issues, in order to get to Step 0. You will know you have reached Step 0 when you can "radically accept" that your friends and family voted against your life, your rights, and your wellbeing. That is who they are, this is what you are dealing with, and you no longer have any wish to wrestle with this reality (try to convince them, try to lead by example, try to explain yourself, try to talk to them, try to get them to acknowledge your pain or at least be forced to see it, etc) because you. just. fully. accept their political position is their political position - you accept their total separateness from you and you accept their right to be separate from you - and even though you may be angry, even though you may be hurt, even though you still hate their politics, you want to just get on with building the relationship. If you're there, then you can move on to Stratagem 1: find things you enjoy about this person, and trying to do things you mutually enjoy with them. Even the smallest movement towards identifying and then amplifying the good (by having small good interactions) will help. Repeated good interactions are what finally defeated my insecurity about "giving my parents an inch" - it felt so threatening to me to have anything nice with these people against whom I was nursing so much anger, and I TREASURED my anger, I didn't want to lose it! Having repeated nice experiences made me feel like, okay, I still haven't lost my right to anger or my anger even though I am having fun with them. Both my anger and my love can coexist. This has been a HUGE relief. Stratagem 2: stop talking politics with them entirely. These are not your politics buddies. FIND OTHER POLITICS BUDDIES YOU CAN RELIABLY GET SUPPORT FROM for the political side of you. This type of compartmentalization is a healthy practice because nobody can be everything to us. Nobody in our personal life can check all the boxes and be everything we need from the world. People's failings are sometimes located near the very things we consider "basic shit". They are human, and this is okay, and we can find others to fill this basic need for us. Stratagem 3: This may seem like the opposite of Stratagem 2 but it is not - don't stay silent when your friends and family say horrible political things to you or around you. You don't bring up politics but you don't stay quiet when unacceptable things are spoken in your vicinity. You MUST say something, you MUST speak your mind. Make it short but make it honest. Otherwise you build up an incredible amount of resentment and anger that will poison the relationship and run counter to your Step 0 goals. Stratagem 4: After you say it, move on without belaboring your point or trying to get them to agree with you. Say it, and then completely let it go. Saying it is the point. The goal is NOT to change them, move them, make them think like you, make them acknowledge you, make them apologize, etc. The goal is unburdening yourself by speaking your truth, protecting the relationship by not allowing thoughts to fester in secret. If what they have said is horrible, say, "Wow, that's pretty horrible," and then move on immediately - warmly, affectionately, taking the sting out of it with your manner, without holding a grudge. You get your satisfaction by speaking up, not by making them bend. This strikes a great balance between being authentic and yet sidestepping useless conflict. Stratagem 5: If they want to argue with you, you have to learn how to bow out smoothly without engaging in that. Say things like, "Oh, dad, that's fine, we can let it go. Tell me about Auntie's health..." Again it is important to remain non-retaliatory, don't punish them for wanting to hash this out by being angry. Be calm and warm and affectionate, but do not be moved into engaging in the political discussion. Walk out and take a short break if you need to. But come back on your own as soon as possible, and be loving. These are your people. You have boundaries with them, not walls. Full Article
pi Philippians 4:13 By www.amazingfacts.org Published On :: Wed, 31 Jul 2013 06:13:00 GMT I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.(Philippians 4:13) Full Article
pi OST Full Show: 'John Lewis: Good Trouble’; SCAD Film Graduate Launches Anacaona Pictures By www.gpbnews.org Published On :: Fri, 10 Jul 2020 16:44:09 +0000 John Lewis has served as U.S. Representative for Georgia’s 5th Congressional District since 1987, and is known for his passionate work both in the civil rights movements and on Capitol Hill. A new documentary called John Lewis: Good Trouble goes beyond the highlight reel of his storied life and reveals more personal elements of the man and the figure. On Second Thought hears from the film’s director and producer Dawn Porter and producer Erika Alexander about how the film connects his legacy of seeking justice from his youth to his role as a revered congressman today. Full Article
pi How Anacaona Pictures Is ‘Providing A Voice To The Voiceless’ By www.gpbnews.org Published On :: Fri, 10 Jul 2020 19:29:24 +0000 Growing up, Mahalia Latortue says she had three career options — doctor, lawyer or engineer. But despite starting her undergraduate studies at Oakwood University in Alabama focused on pre-law, she graduated with a passion for filmmaking. Today, she’s a recent Savannah College of Art and Design film graduate who founded her own Atlanta-based production company called Anacaona Pictures . The company’s mission is to “create diverse, untold stories and provide a voice to the voiceless.” Full Article