ot Rural continues to be a driver of growth for us and not a drag: Bharat Puri, Pidilite Industries By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Sat, 27 Jan 2024 09:32:36 +0530 Bharat Puri, MD of Pidilite Industries, discusses the company's revenue growth driven by volume growth and reduction in prices due to normalized raw material prices. Puri expects double-digit volume growth going forward and highlights the company's focus on investing in rural markets, which have shown no decline or softness. Pidilite Industries has added 30,000 new retail points to its rural network and sees rural markets as a driver of growth. Puri also mentions the improvement in international business and sustainable EBITDA margins at the higher range of 20-24%. Full Article
ot Trademark dispute over tiffin box: Delhi HC takes notes of CELLO's intent to resolve suit amicably By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Thu, 06 Jun 2024 16:29:31 +0530 Shree Vallabh Metals in October 2023 had secured an injunction from Delhi HC against the use of the MAX FRESH trademark by Cello Plastic Industrial Works. Full Article
ot Relaxo Footwears net profit declines 17% in Q2 FY25 By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Mon, 11 Nov 2024 09:37:58 +0530 Relaxo Footwears recorded a 17 percent drop in net profit to Rs 37 crore for the second quarter ending September 30. Revenue also decreased by 5 percent to Rs 679 crore. The company attributes the decline to lower demand and increased competition from unorganized players. Relaxo plans to add more distributors and optimize operations for future growth. Full Article
ot NARS Cosmetics eyes top 3 spot in India’s luxury beauty market, plans to double retail presence By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Mon, 04 Nov 2024 06:00:00 +0530 Highlighting the brand’s expansion trajectory in terms of physical retail presence, Sanjay Sharma, Country Head of Shiseido India said that since launching with 15 touchpoints last year, NARS has already doubled its reach to 30 points in India and plans to double again in the next two years. Full Article
ot Coty sees annual profit at low end of forecast as mass beauty demand slows By retail.economictimes.indiatimes.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 11:30:00 +0530 Coty expects lower annual profit than previously forecasted. Demand for beauty products is slowing down in the US and Australia. Consumers are choosing essential products over beauty items. Coty's prestige fragrance segment, however, reported a 9% rise in sales. This is due to new launches such as Burberry Goddess and Marc Jacobs Daisy Wild fragrances. Full Article
ot Visitors notice By music-player.webnode.com.br Published On :: Wed, 27 Jan 2010 16:00:03 +0100 Let your visitors know about news and events on your website as often as possible. You need to keep your website up-to-date so that your visitors will get used to visiting your pages regularly. You can use RSS feeds to deliver new articles directly to your readers. Full Article News
ot Intern Opportunities for Photographers and Videographers By pacific-crest.org Published On :: Wed, 22 Feb 2023 06:01:15 +0000 Pacific Crest is seeking energetic and creative individuals to work as photographer and videographer interns for this coming season. If you are no longer eligible to march, this is a […] Full Article News
ot Monetize and Promote Your Podcast with Buzzsprout Ads By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 14 Sep 2022 16:09:28 +0000 I think Buzzsprout is the easiest-to-use podcast-hosting provider, and now they've made monetizing easy, too! Plus, you can use this to grow your own podcast! The post Monetize and Promote Your Podcast with Buzzsprout Ads first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Podcasting Video Tips Buzzsprout dynamic ad-insertion monetization Podcast Movement 2022 profit promotion
ot How to Promote Old Podcast Episodes By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 30 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000 Your podcast episodes don't have to "expire" once the next episode is released. With some strategy, you can use your old episodes to continue growing and engaging your audience! The post How to Promote Old Podcast Episodes first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio automation email list email marketing old episodes promotion scheduling social networks social sharing timeless content
ot Should Your Photo Be in Your Podcast Cover Art? By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 15 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000 Podcast cover art is usually the first and most prominent thing people will see about your podcast! So should your photo be in the cover art? The post Should Your Photo Be in Your Podcast Cover Art? first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio artwork branding cover art design production
ot Debunking the Myth: “It’s Not Hurting Their Podcast” By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 12 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000 Some podcasters think everything a successful podcaster does directly contributes to their success and not holding them back. But that's false! The post Debunking the Myth: “It’s Not Hurting Their Podcast” first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio content interviews marketing monetization presentation production profit promotion techniques
ot How to Fix Duplicate Listings in Apple Podcasts (or Other Podcast Apps) By theaudacitytopodcast.com Published On :: Wed, 31 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000 If your podcast is listed twice in Apple Podcasts or another podcast directory, STOP! Don't do anything about it until you read or listen to this! The post How to Fix Duplicate Listings in Apple Podcasts (or Other Podcast Apps) first appeared on The Audacity to Podcast. Full Article Audio Apple Podcasts duplicate publishing RSS RSS feed
ot Japanese speaker (Remote) By jobs.metafilter.com Published On :: Fri, 30 Sep 2022 22:10:30 GMT We (two non-Japanese speaking Americans) will be traveling in Japan in mid-November and are looking for a Japanese speaker to help us make a few restaurant reservations by phone or email/fax ahead of time, since we won't have a concierge who can do it for us. Ideally, we'd make the reservations by the end of the first week of October. Full Article
ot Setting up and moderating a Mastodon instance (but not hosting) (Remote) By jobs.metafilter.com Published On :: Tue, 06 Dec 2022 19:59:24 GMT This is very speculative. I am assisting a faculty member where I work with the idea of establishing a Mastodon server (hosted by the university) to support a specialized intersection of a particular equity-seeking group and an area of study. The work would be to help run the server, and possibly promote it -- a combination moderator and marketer, both making sure the community is running smoothly and also reaching to people to encourage them to join. If this seems interesting to you, and in full knowledge that this might go nowhere, I'd love to hear about your moderation experience, how many hours a week you think you'd be able to put into the project, and your pay per hour expectations (in USD). Full Article
ot Receive a package (clothing) and ship it to the US (California ) By jobs.metafilter.com Published On :: Wed, 15 Mar 2023 04:28:01 GMT I'd like to buy suit separates from Mödstrom, who only ship to the following countries: Austria Belgium Denmark Finland France Germany Greenland Ireland Italy Luxembourg Norway Portugal Spain Sweden Lithuania Poland The Netherlands I'm in the United States. So ideally, I'd like someone in one of the above countries to receive the package for me and ship it on to the US. I would pay for all shipping costs, and either order the item or give you the money to order if you'd like to keep your address confidential. I'll also pay you for your time, please feel free to make an offer (I don't know how much effort this will require on your part depending on your location, but if you'd like me to make an initial offer I can do so). I'd prefer to be contacted through MeMail, but you can use the email address here if you prefer. Full Article
ot Senior Backend Developer (Node.js) (Remote) By jobs.metafilter.com Published On :: Mon, 24 Apr 2023 19:11:55 GMT Looking to hire as an independent contractor a highly experienced backend software engineer with extensive experience with Node.js, and preferably with MongoDB as well. Familiarity with GCP would be a plus. This is a part-time, remote contract that will probably be for a minimum of three months and possibly a good bit longer. You must be a true high senior or expert level developer with extensive Node.js experience. A qualified candidate will most likely have at least ten years of solid software development experience. If you are not the right person but know somebody who might be, please feel free to have them contact me. Thank you. Full Article
ot Writers/editors for translating blog to English, German and French (Remote) By jobs.metafilter.com Published On :: Tue, 09 May 2023 09:07:26 GMT Snabblån Express is a Swedish-based website looking to expand into the global audience. We specialize in money-management and personal economy. Our aim is to increase knowledge about money-lending and educating the public to avoid taking unnecessary risks. This is done via our vast knowledge database. We are now looking for editors who can read and write in English and German (Dutch), as well as Swedish. We have several hundred articles in the database, both published and ready-for-review status, which needs translating as we will launch our website on an international domain soon. The work is done remotely and we seek driven individuals who has the minimum of the following requirements met: You are a social and engaging person with high motivation and ability to perform your tasks individually. You have advanced knowledge from the field of finances and economy in the west, and know how to write compelling economy and finance articles. You are self-driven and efficient, and a fast writer :) - Experience in using Wordpress - Experience in writing before (add references) - Experience in SEO - Fluent in English, German languages - Advanced in Swedish language The payscale varies depending on the output of the work you provide. We are open to suggestions. Full Article
ot NYC : Root some cuttings in water and grow avocado pits in water (New York City) By jobs.metafilter.com Published On :: Sat, 20 May 2023 07:43:20 GMT I'm looking for someone in NYC who will grow some plant cuttings and avocado pits in water for me, for a trade show in August. I'll be exhibiting at a trade show in NYC in mid-August. One of our products is a little tool/display for water propagation of cuttings, succulents or pits such as avocado or mango pits. Normally I grow my own display cuttings and pits for this purpose, and it looks awesome at trade shows local to me (europe). However, I can't fly with live plants to the USA. So, I'd like to hire someone in NYC to root cuttings in water and grow a few avocados and mango pits, so they'll be pretty and leafy by mid-August. I need that someone to be super reliable, so I can be assured to have those plants ready to pick up for the show. They don't need to be a professional, but it'd be great if they've plenty of experience and access to sufficient space on a sunny windowsill to grow these. I would pick up the plants from you on August 11th or 12th. So, if you're already growing cuttings at home, and are interested in this job, memail me and we can discuss details and compensation. Full Article
ot Comics artist with "cartoon realism" style. (London) By jobs.metafilter.com Published On :: Mon, 06 May 2024 14:54:51 GMT I'm a published writer with a completed script for a non-fiction graphic novel, but no-one to draw it. It's a real-world setting and cast with no fantasy or superhero elements. The story's a serious one, so the art needs to match that tone. Initially, I just need ten pages of finished B&W art (pencils & inks) to use as I pitch the project round suitable publishers. For the right artist this could grow into a paid commission for the full book. I'm happy to agree either a page rate deal or a 50/50 ownership split (including ancillary rights). The story has proven TV/film potential. If you'd like to be considered, please Metamail me with a link where I can find your samples and details of any comics work you've done before. Thank you. Full Article
ot 15 Best Motown Songs of All Time By singersroom.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 06:27:15 +0000 Motown isn’t just a record label—it’s a cultural movement. From its humble beginnings in Detroit, Michigan, Motown transformed the world of music, giving us some of the most iconic, soulful, and timeless songs ever recorded. With its signature blend of pop, soul, and R&B, the Motown sound broke down racial barriers, bringing people of all […] The post 15 Best Motown Songs of All Time first appeared on Singersroom.com. Full Article Best Songs Guide
ot 15 Best Motivational Songs of All Time By singersroom.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 06:27:44 +0000 Looking for that perfect soundtrack to fuel your drive, lift your spirits, and keep you pushing forward? Music has an undeniable power to inspire, motivate, and transform our mindset, and nothing captures that better than anthems of perseverance and empowerment. Whether you’re facing a tough workout, a challenging day at work, or simply need a […] The post 15 Best Motivational Songs of All Time first appeared on Singersroom.com. Full Article Best Songs Guide
ot Cinema Chat: 'Deadpool & Wolverine' opens nationwide, plus 'Widow Clicquot' opens at the Michigan Theater By www.wemu.org Published On :: Thu, 25 Jul 2024 08:38:37 -0400 An exciting weekend is coming to the movie world, including one of the most anticipated superhero matchups ever! WEMU's David Fair mets up with Marquee Arts cinema programming director, Nick Alderink, to give you a rundown of upcoming films and special screenings! Full Article
ot Cinema Chat: 'The Wild Robot,' 'Lee,' 'Megalopolis' and more opening this weekend in Ann Arbor By www.wemu.org Published On :: Thu, 26 Sep 2024 09:17:43 -0400 We are officially in the fall season, and a whole bunch of movies are falling into your favorite theaters! WEMU's David Fair chats about the latest films and special screenings with Marquee Arts executive director, Russ Collins. Full Article
ot "no skips, no shortcuts" By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Tue, 12 Nov 2024 14:48:00 GMT "In his best run, Jammy had become the richest person in the world in eleven years, three months, eleven days, and twenty-three hours (in-game timer)..." "Any Percent" by Andrew Dana Hudson asks: "Imagine you could play a video game that let you live a whole human life in a matter of minutes. What would it mean to 'win' in that game? What would it mean to speedrun?" in an ultimately hopeful "proletarian-themed" science fiction story deliberately published on May Day, 2023 to celebrate International Workers' Day. I pair it with Grace Petrie's energetic song "Fixer Upper" which starts "I woke up from an awful dream / in June of 2016" yet finds a way to lead to "everything you dream is possible / it's waiting to be made .... come grab a spade!"Petrie previously. From Petrie's song "Fixer Upper": "I woke up from an awful dream / in June of two thousand sixteen / in a far right fake news fucked up universe / and though we sang The Mountain Goats / loud enough to bruise our throats / every year that followed still got worse and worse" "And maybe I'm delusional / but I think you are beautiful / and if we could just keep from losing heart / we might still / not rest until / if anybody can, we will / we will build something better from the parts" (full lyrics to "Fixer Upper") Spoiler: "Fixer Upper" made me absolutely burst into tears and I feel like I needed to hear it precisely now. Full Article AndrewDanaHudson ClimateChange games GracePetrie hope music sciencefiction scifi sff shortfiction shortstories shortstory speedrunning unionizing unions work workers
ot "Never take your accounts department for granted ever again" By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Tue, 12 Nov 2024 18:52:24 GMT Aftermath, the tech and gaming blog founded by webugees from Kotaku, is one year old! In a lengthy post on their site, founders Luke Plunkett, Gita Jackson, Riley McLeod, Nathan Grayson and Chris Person discuss what running their little co-op business is like, and the issues they face in keeping it afloat. Full Article Aftermath ChrisPerson games GitaJackson indie Kotaku LukePlunkett NathonGrayson publishing RileyMcLeod tech web
ot gotta get that good dumpling! By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Wed, 13 Nov 2024 01:11:39 GMT 100,000 Chinese students join 50km night-time bike ride in search of good soup dumplings Full Article biking China dumpling
ot "Stranger things have happened, especially in driver's education class." By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Mon, 07 Apr 2014 09:26:25 -0800 So I read a children's book as a kid in the 1980s that used the title quote as a running gag. Can anybody identify it? It may or may not have been a guide to surviving school. It was almost certainly a paperback from a Scholastic book order. (I had thought it was by Jovial Bob Stine, but no book of his that the Internet knows of seems to fit. It might have been bundled with one of his books, though?) Full Article books quotation stumped
ot What is Cibo Matto's "Emerald Tuesday" (heavily) sampling? By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Wed, 05 Feb 2014 14:01:33 -0800 I'm listening to NPR's streaming "First Listen" of Cibo Matto's "Emerald Tuesday," off the forthcoming Hotel Valentine, and I know this song it's sampling from the first note. (And I think that's the point of the lyrics, that the ghost in the song listened/listens to the sampled song all the time.) I feel like it's also something my husband listens to all the time, or that was in a movie I just saw, but I can't pin it down. My first thought was Curtis Mayfield, but I'm not finding it. I know it's going to seem obvious to me once you tell me, but nonetheless—help! What is that song? Full Article cibomatto emeraldtuesday nprfirstlisten hotelvalentine sample jazzmaybe music stumped
ot "The bitten cherry or the apple core" By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Sun, 02 Apr 2017 12:16:32 -0800 About a decade ago, an early music group -- possibly the Medieval Baebes -- sang a post-medieval encore that I can't find a whisper of. The line I think I remember is "The orchard didn't know if it was planted for/ The bitten cherry or the apple core." Can anyone identify this? Full Article song lyrics earlymusic stumped
ot Jesus, Our Faithful Brother (Lesson #4) By manna.amazingfacts.org Published On :: Sun, 16 Jan 2022 00:00:00 GMT What are ways that you can learn to experience more deeply that reality of just how close Christ can be to you? Why is having this experience so important to your faith? Full Article
ot CDC Takes Action After Study Shows Swine Flu Viruses Have Pandemic Potential By www.gpbnews.org Published On :: Fri, 10 Jul 2020 20:01:36 +0000 A group of H1N1 swine influenza viruses have essential hallmarks of being highly adapted to infect humans and are of potential pandemic concern, health officials say. These viruses — referred to as G4 Eurasian (EA) avian-like H1N1 viruses — have been spreading in pigs in China since 2016 and are now the predominant set of genes that can be passed down from parents to offspring , according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Full Article
ot Political Rewind: Tension Between Governor and Mayor As Both Lead Through Virus By www.gpbnews.org Published On :: Mon, 13 Jul 2020 15:35:49 +0000 Monday on Political Rewind , the relationship between Gov. Brian Kemp and Mayor Keisha Lance Bottoms has frayed, as both officials take opposing views on how to govern during the pandemic. A once productive and collegial relationship is now soured by open fighting. What brought us here? Listen here: Full Article
ot 'Not A Snitch, A Hero': Father Of Slain Atlanta Girl Begs Killer To Turn Self In By www.gpbnews.org Published On :: Mon, 13 Jul 2020 21:15:54 +0000 Secoriea Turner, the 8-year-old girl shot to death July 4 near the burned-down Wendy's in Atlanta, had nothing to do with ongoing protests against police brutality, her family's lawyers say. At a news conference Monday, Secoriey Williamson, the girl's father, begged for anyone with information to come forward. He even played to the conscience of his daughter's killer, pleading with the shooter to come forward. Full Article
ot By We put our faith in Blast Hardcheese in "Anti-Asian Structural Violence, an Example" on MeFi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Mon, 11 Nov 2024 15:11:16 GMT Were you really that frozen with fear? DoubtfulThere's nothing I can say to this dismissive nonsense that won't get me thrown off Metafilter. Full Article
ot By capricorn in "Got any good advice for a PoC USian post election?" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Wed, 06 Nov 2024 14:22:41 GMT I keep returning to two things. 1) building on the idea of community, trying to spread as much love as I can in the world. The time for action will be soon but right now is the time to love each other as much as we possibly can. 2) we aren't the only country to have elected a far-right or fascist leader recently. I'm looking to the people I know who live in other countries with leaders like Trump. There is still joy and possibility in their lives, even though their fight is hard, just like ours will be. Love and joy are exactly what the far right wants to take away from us so let's stick it to them and not let them. Full Article
ot By fire, water, earth, air in "Coping in a red state" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 00:59:28 GMT Let me tell you a story about a woman I know who votes conservative. She isn't the type of person I would self-select to be a friend, or even a friendly acquaintance — perhaps to my detriment! — because she's well-to-do, right-leaning, and very Christian. But I see her every week and have talked to her quite a bit because she's one of my medical providers.Because I'm disabled, she charges me half of what she'd normally charge; every time I thank her, she says it's no big deal, and that, "Disabled people deserve every break they can get!" This saves me something like $3,000 dollars a year: that's an extra $3,000 a year she could be making, and actually now can't be making, because she's using her hours to treat me instead of other patients. She does a lot of volunteering. Donates a lot of money. She talks about how she's disappointed that certain social services, like disabled transit, fail disabled people, and has a fairly robust understanding of how that plays out because she listens carefully to her disabled patients. In her church, she's taken a stand for welcoming gay members of the community into the congregation, and into leadership positions, and was heartbroken and felt powerless and bewildered when the higher-up leadership blocked several of these things.Whenever I've talked about the difficulties my trans friends are facing, she is genuinely sympathetic to the individual friend, interested in their life, and sad about their suffering, but sometimes expresses the concern-trolling talking points of the right-wing media — I read this as her being very responsive and caring to any unique individual she knows, but not recognizing the perils of the wider systemic discrimination going on.Last time there was an election, I was talking about how conservative funding cuts impact the disabled community, and she expressed a lot of opinions along the lines of, "Of course I think everyone who needs disability income should have it! But don't you realize that the left-wing government will get us further into debt, whereas the conservatives will improve the economy so that we have more government funds to give social programs?" This coming from a person whose personality is very caring, motherly, and friendly, not at all a combative or hostile "debater:" normal people genuinely believe these things because the right-wing media repeats them over and over again.I think that you really are right when you say, I truly believe they are good, kind, thoughtful people. Most of them probably are. But they are being lied to and duped by right-wing politicians, and not realizing the extent to which they're being lied to, because they believe we still live in a reasonable society in which no one would actually lie that much ... so some of the things they're saying must be true, right?They don't realize the extent to which BIPOC, queer, disabled, immigrant, etc. minority groups are in very real danger, and think it must be exaggerated, because they don't really know that many, or the few that they know appear to be doing just fine. And so they vote with their worry and their fear, and their vote does not truly carry through their intentions about the kind of world they wish to live in.This is not, of course, all people. Some people really are deep into right-wing ideology and have entire groups that they do not see as real people. But I find that most of the people I meet are like her: I could have several conversations with them not knowing they are right-wing, and get along with them just fine, because their day-to-day values of how to treat other human beings really are quite similar to mine. But because of their political/cultural education, their sociological and media literacy, and the demographics of people that make up their workplace, friends, and family, they are being fed a different set of facts, a different "reality."This all makes me incredibly sad but also gives me bit of hope, and I hope it will bring some peace to you.I live in Canada, so it's not the same, but I do live in one of the most right-leaning provinces. I really feel what you're going through. I am also surrounded by people I care about — who appear to care about me — who vote in one awful conservative government after another. Stay strong: sending love and sympathy. Full Article
ot By Faint of Butt in "Our Cockroach Era" on MeFi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Sun, 10 Nov 2024 17:41:42 GMT I do not want to be alive. This is not a new development; I first voiced this opinion to my mother when I was five years old, and it has persisted through the subsequent four decades despite therapy, a vast array of medications, and multiple forms of invasive treatments that have made my existence even less bearable while having no affect on my depression (or, as I think of it, my identity and most fundamental self). Given the opportunity to press a button and fast-forward to my deathbed, I'd do it without hesitation. But these Nazi motherfuckers will not leave the people I love alone. They are forcing me to stay alive, even though I hate every minute of it, just so I can contribute my meager skills to the war effort against them. You have no idea how furious I am, because all I want is to die, and they won't let me, because if I did I'd be ceding the world to them, and I refuse to do that without exhausting every drop of blood within me. If I can't have a single moment of joy, peace or happiness, then neither can they. Full Article
ot By MiraK in "Where do you see signs of hope?" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Fri, 08 Nov 2024 18:57:00 GMT Two things:1. Narrow your focus to your sphere of influence, just for now, because in this moment of helplessness and defeat, when we are feeling powerless, it behooves us to remember we do have immense power. Kamala Harris was never going to bring a casserole to your neighbor when their spouse was in the hospital, that's you. Donald Trump cannot steal the laughter from your friends' lips when you tell them a joke, that laughter is entirely in your power. You have the power to choose connection, fellowship, mutual aid, joy, hard work, love, passion, devotion, faith. To me, remembering that I have power is cause for hope. 2. When you're out there using your power to connect with your fellow human beings, look for the helpers. Take heart in their existence, their perseverance. Do everything you can to become one of them. Full Article
ot By jessamyn in "Calmer Vibes Chill Thread." on MetaTalk By metatalk.metafilter.com Published On :: Wed, 06 Nov 2024 19:29:16 GMT The woman who I worked with as Justice of the Peace, who won by five votes last time (2 years ago) was a problem, believed in a lot of conspiracy theory stuff and was a time-waster being very vocal about it at our abatement and civil authority meetings. I was also on the ballot this year (and won handily) but I told people that i didn't care who they voted for as long as it was NOT HER and she lost and in the very small pond of my town's abatement and civil authority boards, things will go much more smoothly.Also I made kid ballots and had two contests: dragon vs unicorn (a tie, with one write-in for "pegasis") and winter vs summer (winter won handily) and kids seemed to enjoy that and the "future voter" stickers we gave them. Full Article
ot By rd45 in "Handling post-infidelity situation with partner & affair partner" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 20:06:36 GMT I don't disagree with the advice already provided, but I think you're using the word "boundary" in an odd way. You don't get to set boundaries on other people's behaviour, even when you're married to them. You can set a boundary around your own behaviour, then other people decide how they'll respond. In this case, you might say: if you continue a friendship with B, our relationship will be at an end. Then, the ball is in R's court - he can decide what to do next. Full Article
ot By coffeecat in "How would you suggest I deal with confrontation from a MAGA'er?" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Fri, 08 Nov 2024 16:11:36 GMT I'm sorry you've been through so much lately, but I think you are definitely catastrophizing. I'd say the likelihood you'll be a target of political violence is pretty close to zero. I would suggest you stop reading the news/Reddit for a bit if it's causing you to feel this way - go for walks in your new neighborhood, make plans to see your friends in the city, etc. Full Article
ot By dorothyisunderwood in "Seeking community in the face of the US election" on MeFi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Fri, 08 Nov 2024 02:39:29 GMT Fresh off the latest meeting about incorporation, and I want to say: thank you to the moderators and Jessamyn who keep the site going and thank you to the volunteers past and present putting in work to build new possibilities for the site, including making it easier for more people to volunteer and contribute in different ways. I'm also truly proud of the decision made early on by the volunteers to do things together, even if that meant slowing down. I'm the kind of person who sees a problem and goes into fix-it mode as fast as possible. Practicing on a hugely meaningful project like Metafilter to listen and consider all of our viewpoints and work through to a communal path was hard. It was sometimes frustratingly slow! But by the second half of our timeline, I can see now that we get important things done faster and faster and how strong the foundation we've built is (heh, bad pun) because we've got trust and a collaborative thoughtful process. I'd also like to recognise the people who took a deep breath before writing a reply in a high-termperature thread, the people who edited down the snark in their comments or thought - I'll change to the thread about kitten videos instead. It is hard to be civil and think about other people when they're text on a screen - and it's harder when so much media encourages profit by provoking yelling. Metafilter is an internet third space that isn't trying to profit actively from yelling. And sometimes we gotta yell in some threads - but most of the time we talk, and I so so appreciate having a third space where people can talk without an algorithm aimed at our lizard brains. Full Article
ot By The Bellman in "Apropos of nothing at all" on MeFi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 21:01:41 GMT I am the son of a Holocaust survivor. When my dad was 11, his parents put him and his 13 year-old brother on a boat, alone, from their home in Amsterdam so they could come to America and escape the Nazis. Hilariously, just one generation later, this website suggests I get back on the boat and return to exactly the same place for exactly the same reason. Full Article
ot By Zumbador in "How would you suggest I deal with confrontation from a MAGA'er?" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Fri, 08 Nov 2024 16:25:05 GMT This does sound very much like your anxiety latching on to a potential future and you getting stuck in that.Others can give you advice about dealing with this particular scenario.But here are some things to remember:Seeking reassurance from others usually results in your anxiety getting worse, as their advice makes the imaginary danger seem more real.No amount of rehearsing and imagining and ruminating will make you any safer. In fact, trying to prepare for this scenario means you're staying in the anxiety space for longer.Don't try to fight your scary thoughts, don't argue with yourself. Just note the thought and briefly describe what you're doing to yourself in a non judgemental way."I'm arguing with an imaginary person right now""I'm trying to predict the future""I'm ruminating right now.""I'm seeking reassurance"You have the power to reassure yourself, and THAT kind of reassurance really works.Change catastrophising thoughts into compassionate realism."I don't know what might happen in the future, but I'm going to cope with it when it dies""It's possible that this frightening thing might happen, and it might be unpleasant, but I will deal with it if it does and then it will just be another memory."Find ways to distract yourself from your spiralling thoughts. I like explaining a topic I'm really interested in out loud to myself as a way to drown out stuck thoughts.Trying to prepare for something that *might* happen just means you're making yourself be in that horrible scary worry space for much longer than it would take for the scary thing to happen. You can't control wether or not this thing you fear will happen, but you can control how much you focus on it. Distraction is good! Be with people you enjoy, watch a comfort show, dance to music you love, do something to make yourself feel good. Full Article
ot By warriorqueen in "Handling post-infidelity situation with partner & affair partner" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 19:55:27 GMT My marriage is only monogamish, so I'm saying this with some bias towards polyamory: If your spouse want to prioritize this friendship over your stated boundary, then your spouse is prioritizing the friendship over your marriage. In this case, you really don't have to explain why. In fact, I'd stop explaining why. It's not a comprehension problem. It's that your partner doesn't want to do what you are asking.Here's the words I would use: I do not want you to continue this friendship. If you do, I am going to have to take steps towards ending our marriage. We should discuss this in counselling. In other words even in marriages where there's less emphasis on monogamy, the main thing is that you have to respect your partner's limits, or else you aren't partners. I'm sorry your partner is putting you through this. Full Article
ot By Horace Rumpole in "Anti-Asian Structural Violence, an Example" on MeFi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Mon, 11 Nov 2024 14:11:14 GMT White people are very invested in treating racism as extreme and exceptional when it is in fact commonplace and pervasive. White people are not credible judges of what non-white people describe as experiences of racism. Racism is the Occam's Razor explanation. These so-called academic framings describe patterns that white people would prefer remain undescribed. Full Article
ot By zardoz in "Apropos of nothing at all" on MeFi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 20:10:01 GMT In real life I moved to Japan from the U.S. years ago. Didn't soften the blow of the election one whit. Wherever you go, there you are. Full Article
ot By EmpressCallipygos in "Where do you see signs of hope?" on Ask MeFi By ask.metafilter.com Published On :: Fri, 08 Nov 2024 18:51:24 GMT I work in a women's health clinic that does first-term abortions as one of its services.We have a comment form on our web site where people who want to volunteer as patient escorts can reach out. Typically, we get about one or two inquiries a week.Yesterday alone, we got twenty-five. Full Article
ot By Greg_Ace in "Apropos of nothing at all" on MeFi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 19:58:46 GMT This doesn't take "Will the destination country even accept you as an immigrant" into consideration. Full Article
ot By Capt. Renault in "Apropos of nothing at all" on MeFi By www.metafilter.com Published On :: Thu, 07 Nov 2024 20:03:28 GMT I'm moving to Cozylandia under my duvet and I'm never coming out. Full Article