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I’m a Cisgender Woman and My Husband Watches Trans Porn: Does That Mean He’s Not Into Me?

A reader submitted the following question: “I recently discovered that my husband is attracted to transsexuals (MTF - non op). This is the only type of porn that he looks at. He also role plays online with men for sexual play and chat. I discovered this after I started snooping because I had some red flags. He is very embarrassed and uncomfortable discussing it. He has apologized for the online chatting (as we had agreed this was out of bounds for our relationship). He says he likes them because they are feminine but his primary attraction is to women (with female parts). However, I just am not sure I believe him. I am terrified that when we are intimate (which I have to pretty much beg for), he can only do it when its dark and I am fearful he is fantasizing that I have a penis. This bothers me deeply on a number of different levels. Are there men who are only interested in transsexuals? Is it possible he is no longer turned on by my female genitalia?” There’s a lot to unpack in this question, but let’s start here: over the years, I’ve received several emails from women describing similar stories and concerns, so you’re not alone in feeling the way that you do.



  • Sex Question Friday
  • Sexual Problems and Solutions

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Have You Reached Out to or Heard From an Ex During the Pandemic? You're Not Alone

Anecdotally, I’ve heard from a lot of people who have said that they reached out to (or heard from) and ex-partner since the COVID-19 coronavirus pandemic began. But just how many people have done so? And what motivated them to reconnect? Some of my colleagues and I at The Kinsey Institute are currently in the midst of researching how this pandemic is affecting people’s intimate lives (click here if you’d like to participate and learn more about the study), and our preliminary data suggest that reaching out to an ex isn’t a rare occurrence.




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How to make pandemics optional, not inevitable | Sonia Shah

What can past pandemics teach us how to tackle the current one? Tracing the history of contagions from cholera to Ebola and beyond, science journalist Sonia Shah explains why we're more vulnerable to outbreaks now than ever before, what we can do to minimize the spread of coronavirus and how to prevent future pandemics. (This virtual conversation is part of the TED Connects series, hosted by science curator David Biello and current affairs curator Whitney Pennington Rodgers. Recorded March 31, 2020)




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How to co-parent as allies, not adversaries | Ebony Roberts and Shaka Senghor

When Shaka Senghor and Ebony Roberts ended their relationship, they made a pact to protect their son from its fallout. What resulted was a poetic meditation on what it means to raise a child together, yet apart. In this moving and deeply personal talk, Senghor and Roberts share their approach to co-parenting -- an equal, active partnership that rolls with the punches and revels in the delights of guiding their child through the world with thought and intention.




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We’re Not Good At Spotting When Someone Has A False Memory Of Committing A Crime

By Emily Reynolds. Findings have implications for judges, police officers, and others involved with gathering evidence and interviewing eyewitnesses.




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Teachers, We Cannot Go Back to the Way Things Were

Injustice in our education system was normalized long before the pandemic, writes Bettina L. Love. Now is the time to radically dream for a better future.




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Audit: Maryland Dept. Did Not Properly Store Data for 1.4 Million Students

The Maryland State Department of Education "inappropriately stored" personal information of 1.4 million students and more than 230,000 teachers, leaving them vulnerable to potential bad actors, according to an audit published earlier this month.




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Tennessee Teachers Have Warmed to Evaluation System, But Not State Tests

Tennessee improved its teacher evaluation and training systems by integrating data and teacher voice, according to a new report. But value-added measures that evaluate teachers based on student test scores remain controversial.




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Teachers, We Cannot Go Back to the Way Things Were

Injustice in our education system was normalized long before the pandemic, writes Bettina L. Love. Now is the time to radically dream for a better future.




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Dyslexia Is Not a Bad Word, Advocates Say. Schools Should Use It

A push to get dyslexia defined in state law and persuade educators to use the term has translated to new laws in 40 states.




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Virtual Teaching: Skill of the Future? Or Not So Much?

Leaders in some districts say remote teaching will now be a skill they will build even more in their existing teacher corps. Others are more skeptical.




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Teachers, If You're Not OK Right Now, You're Not Alone

In desperately trying to be a superhero for my students, I underestimated the gravity of the coronavirus crisis, writes Hawaii teacher Lory Walker Peroff.




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NFL wants college football to proceed (but if not would likely move games to Saturdays)

The NFL is indeed discussing the possibility of playing games on Saturdays in the event that college football doesn't proceed with a season from September through December. As one source with direct knowledge of the discussions tells PFT, however, the league's strong preference is for college football to happen, as scheduled. No college football season [more]




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Australian banknote errors / Michael P. Vort-Ronald.




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To make terms of compromise a rule of Court or not? That is the question : an analysis of the options available to settle estate matters / presended by Christina Flourentzou, Supreme Court of South Australia..




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Life Notes.




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Inactive Actions: The consequences if actions are placed in the inactive cases list and are not removed, establishment of “Special Reasons”, and the moratorium of steps procedure.




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Time does not stop / Breanna Loveday.




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Not looking for signs / Belinda Broughton.




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Australian Government response to the Senate Economics References Committee Report : A husband is not a retirement plan: Achieving economic security for women in retirement.




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Ynot Sreym.




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Report on review of detriment : Aboriginal land claims recommended for grant but not yet finalised / the Hon John Mansfield AM QC, Aboriginal Land Commissioner.




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Michael P. Vort-Ronald : autobiography : rough diamond and man of note.




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You WILL NOT poop in my car!.




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Notes on cinematography / John Watson.




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I'm Not a Squid!.




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Dementia is different : not just another ordinary illness / Ludomyr Mykyta.

Dementia.




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Birds in the ancient world : winged words / Jeremy Mynott.

Civilization, Classical.




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This is not a drill : an Extinction Rebellion handbook / edited by Clare Farrell, Alison Green, Sam Knights and William Skeaping.

Extinction Rebellion (Organisation).




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Hate Inc. : why today's media makes us despise one another / Matt Taibbi.

Mass media -- Political aspects -- United States.




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Not in God's name : confronting religious violence / Jonathan Sacks.

Bible. Genesis -- Criticism, interpretation, etc




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Minotaur / Peter Goldsworthy.

Detective and mystery stories.




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Counting backwards : a doctor's notes on anesthesia / Henry Jay Przybylo, MD.

Przybylo, Henry Jay.




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D.C. Charters Aren't Pushing Kids Out. But They're Not Always Welcoming Them In, Either

The District of Columbia's charters aren't always "backfilling" seats, and there's little financial incentive for them to do so.




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Still Not Enough, Kansas' Supreme Court Says About State's School Funding Amount

The state's courts said the additional $548 million the legislature provided its schools this year is still not enough to ensure a constitutionally adequate education.




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Des maladies de l'encéphale et de la moelle épinière / par Jean Abercrombie, ouvrage traduit de l'anglais et augmenté de notes très nombreuses, par A.N. Gendrin.

A Paris : Germer-Bailliere ; A Londres : J.-B. Bailliere, 1835.




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Die ältesten Schriftsteller über die Lustseuche in Deutschland von 1495 bis 1510, nebst mehreren Anecdotis späterer Zeit, gesammelt und mit literarhistorischen Notizen und einer kurzen Darstellung der epidemischen Syphilis in Deutschland /

Gottingen : Dieterich, 1843.




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The discoverie of witchcraft ... Being a reprint of the first edition published in 1584 / by Reginald Scot ; Edited with explanatory notes, glossary and introduction by Brinsley Nicholson.

London : Elliot Stock, 1886.




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Documents inédits sur la grande peste de 1348 (Consultation de la Faculte de Paris, consultation d'un praticien de Montpellier, description de Guillaume de Machaut) / publiés avec une introduction et des notes par L.-A. Joseph Michon.

Londres : Paris, 1860.




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Dr. H. Helfft's Handbuch der Balneotherapie : practischer Leitfaden bei Verordnung der Mineralquellen, Molken, Seebäder, klimatischen Kurorte, &c. / mit Benutsung der vom Verfasser hinterlassenen Notizen neu bearbeitet und herausgegeben von E

Berlin : A. Hirschwald, 1870.




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Du traitement de la pneumonie aiguë / par Victor Hanot.

Paris : J.-B. Baillière, 1880.




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The effect of the cold weather in the early part of 1895 on the admission of medical cases into the Royal Edinburgh Infirmary. With a note on some earlier periods of severe weather / by A. Lockhart Gillespie.

London : Kenny & Co, [1895?]




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Élémens d'histoire naturelle médicale : contenant des notions générales sur l'histoire naturelle, la description, l'histoire et les propriétés de tous les alimens, médicamens, ou poisons, tirés des

Paris : Béchet jeune, 1838.




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An elementary compendium of physiology, for the use of students / by F. Magendie ; translated from the French with copious notes and illustrations, by E. Milligan.

Edinburgh : printed for J. Carfrae, 1823.




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Elementary treatise on physics, experimental and applied : for the use of colleges and schools / translated and edited from Ganot's Éléments de physique (with the author's sanction) by E. Atkinson.

London : Longmans, Green, 1868.




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Elements of general anatomy / translated from the last French edition of P.A. Béclard, with notes and corrections by Robert Knox.

Edinburgh : MacLachlan and Stewart, 1830.




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Eloge upon Baron G. Dupuytren ... / by E. Pariset ; translated, with notes, by J.I. Ikin.

London : J. Churchill, 1837.




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Employers and employed : being (1) an exposition of the law of reparation for physical injury; (2) the Employers' Liability Act, 1880, annotated ... and (3) suggested amendment of the law as to the liability of employers. With appendices and indices /

Glasgow : J. Maclehose, 1887.




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Erasmus Darwin / by Ernst Krause ; translated from the German by W.S. Dallas ; with a preliminary notice by Charles Darwin.

London : J. Murray, 1879.




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Essai sur la digitale pourprée / par James Sanders ; traduit de l'anglais par A.F.G. Murat, avec des notes et des réflexions sur la matière médicale par le traducteur.

Paris : Ancelle, 1812.