elf Die Before You Die (to Your Bad Self) By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2018-10-18T17:16:13+00:00 If the Lord will accept us at "the eleventh hour" -- why all the prayer, fasting, and alms giving? Fr Joseph speaks at an ecumenical gathering about how the Orthodox work out their salvation. Full Article
elf Lying to Self, Hiding from Light By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2019-05-28T19:02:37+00:00 Fr Joseph asks parishioner Jeff Anderson why he finds the Samaritan Woman, St Photini, so special. (Talk about a "come to Jesus" moment!) Full Article
elf Denying Self (Mark 8:34) By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2016-03-02T19:43:12+00:00 Fr. John talks about denying ourselves. "We want to be happy in the next life more than we want to be happy in this life." Full Article
elf Humble Thyself in the Sight of the Lord By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2016-03-02T20:07:11+00:00 Fr. John speaks about humility (James 4:1-10). Full Article
elf No One Can Hurt You But Yourself By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-10-12T20:55:26+00:00 Fr. John Whiteford delivers an exhortation to learn from this quarantine and use that spiritual wisdom in life moving forward. Full Article
elf To See Yourself By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2016-03-30T15:40:47+00:00 On this Sunday of the Triumph of Orthodoxy, we are confronted with a theology that invites us to know ourselves by seeing what God looks like in flesh! Full Article
elf Guilt and Self-Judgment By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2016-10-14T16:06:33+00:00 Have you ever felt so bad about something you said or did, or something you continue to say and do, something you know is wrong but can’t seem to help yourself and you feel wracked with guilt? Do you judge yourself as a result? Join Michael as he uses examples from the Gospels and everyday life and discusses the difference between healthy guilt and lingering guilt, and the dangers of self-judgment that lead us to cutting ourselves off from God. Full Article
elf Self-Denial or Self-Desire By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-10-07T14:12:52+00:00 Join Michael as he discusses the danger of giving into the wrong desires, some of which seem benign but aren’t; the struggles we encounter on the journey from self-desire to self-denial; what authors such as Lewis, Tolkien, and others can teach us; and ways we can frame our thought to help us with this important struggle. Full Article
elf Healing the Soul through Self-Forgiveness By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2022-04-11T17:57:16+00:00 Join Michael for a discussion on why forgiving ourselves is often so hard and what we need to understand and do to open our hearts to self-forgiveness. Full Article
elf Our Bodies and the Sin of Self-Neglect By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2023-03-06T15:04:51+00:00 Join Michael in a discussion about how we often neglect our bodies, the physical and spiritual ramifications to ourselves and loved ones, how this is profoundly unspiritual, and what we need to think and do to treat our physical selves the way God intends us to. Full Article
elf How do I drag myself out of sin and back to prayer? How soon can I ask for God's forgiveness? By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2021-02-17T16:01:59+00:00 After we sin, our hearts freeze. For a while, we stay away from God on purpose. We need time to heal, we need some sort of ritual of cleansing, some manner in which to make ourselves (in our own eyes) acceptable again to God. But the way back to prayer must begin as soon as possible, if possible even during the act of sin itself. The sooner we turn ourselves back to face Christ's Light, the sooner we shall drag ourselves out of the depth of our fall. Remind yourself of those who were waiting in the darkness of hell for Christ's Descent - ask for their desperate desire to be forgiven, pray for their unceasing hope that Light WILL one day find them and bring them back to Life out of the death of their hell. For those who put their trust in Christ, there is always Hope, there is always Love, there is always a way back to repentance and Life. Full Article
elf The Self Destructive Cycle of Shame, Despair and Pride By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2021-02-19T17:54:43+00:00 Fr. Seraphim Aldea reminds us that who we are in Christ is the best version of ourselves. Full Article
elf I Suffer from Anxiety and Low Self-Esteem. All I Want is to Love and Be Loved. By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2022-12-16T16:06:47+00:00 The opinion of others can destroy one's self-esteem. We need to found our life on Christ's values, regardless of the response that generates in those around us. We may be unpopular, but we are truly ourselves, and that is worth carrying this Cross for. Full Article
elf Procrastination and Self-Worth By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2024-09-25T05:00:01+00:00 Procrastination and Self-Worth (w/ Fr. Seraphim Aldea) Full Article
elf Self Care By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2011-09-28T10:19:56+00:00 What does it mean to truly love and care for ourselves? How is this related to our health and faith? In this episode, Rita takes a look at the Akathist of Thanksgiving service to gain insight on how to properly nurture ourselves to aid us in proper care of body and soul alike. Full Article
elf Align Yourself With God By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2021-03-24T15:04:41+00:00 It's simply so beautiful how our tradition has the answers for what a lot of modern day self-help programs are offering to help one care for their health. Full Article
elf Burnout and Self-Care - Part 1 By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2017-03-22T02:47:33+00:00 Fr. Adrian and Chaplain Sarah begin a two part conversation about the important role of self-care in preventing burnout in caregiving roles. Full Article
elf Burnout and Self-Care - Part 2 By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2017-04-05T01:48:50+00:00 Fr. Adrian and Chaplain Sarah continue their conversation about the important role of self-care in preventing burnout in caregiving roles, focusing on the psychological point of view and addressing how to do good self-care. Full Article
elf Self-Denial Is an Invitation (Mar. 11, 2018) By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-01-23T21:18:45+00:00 Jesus said that anyone who would come after Him should deny themselves and take up their crosses. We may think this is about doing hard, painful things, but Fr. Andrew Stephen Damick tells us it's actually an invitation. Full Article
elf The Annunciation and the Buffered Self (Mar. 24, 2019) By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-01-23T22:16:36+00:00 Speaking on the Forefeast of the Annunciation, Fr. Andrew Stephen Damick describes the feast as being God's answer to the buffered, fenced-in selves that we ironically construct to protect ourselves even while desiring someone to reach out in love. Full Article
elf We Are Training Ourselves for Selfishness (Aug. 4, 2019) By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-01-23T22:39:04+00:00 Every day, we make hundreds of small choices that train us for selfishness. How does that affect our behavior, and how do we train ourselves to be like Christ instead? Fr. Andrew Stephen Damick explores some of our everyday experiences and what they mean for eternity. Full Article
elf Don't Feed Yourself to the Water Dragons (Jan. 12, 2020) By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-01-23T23:00:44+00:00 On the Eve of Theophany, Fr. Andrew Stephen Damick charges straight ahead into dragon territory, discussing what it means to confront the dragons in the water and also asking: Why don't we seem to see dragons any more? Full Article
elf Midnight in the Elfin Garden of Paschal Pajamas By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2014-11-25T04:31:18+00:00 Due to a knock on the noggin, Fr. Joseph finds himself fast-forwarding toward Pascha and holding hands with a green elf at midnight in a church where everybody is clothed in their pajamas and the iconostasis has been replaced with ... dirty laundry? Full Article
elf Midnight in the Elfin Garden of Paschal Pajamas - Conclusion By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2014-11-25T04:31:58+00:00 In the last episode, Fr. Joseph encountered a little green church elf, Elton John, Lady GaGa, Archie Bunker, and Buzz Lightyear in pajamas. In this concluding episode, he tries to make sense of it all (with the help of Ol' Scratch). Full Article
elf Know Thyself By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2017-01-09T14:40:04+00:00 Fr. Anthony interviews Fr. Gregory Jensen about the need for priests to know themselves. Full Article
elf Fr. Harry Linsinbigler on Dealing with Self Doubt By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2019-08-06T17:35:55+00:00 In this episode, Fr. Anthony and Fr. Harry talk about one of the Demons of Noonday: self doubt. They point out the role that participation in the Divine Liturgy can have in diagnosing and overcoming it and encourage anyone who is suffering from pernicious self doubt to spend more time with their supportive brothers in the priesthood. Full Article
elf Adam DeVille on Self-Care as Asceticism (not self-indulgence) By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2021-01-17T21:26:41+00:00 Join Fr. Anthony in Hartwell, GA as he talks with Professor Adam DeVille (University of Saint Francis, Fort Wayne, IN) about proper and improper ways of framing self-care, why it is so easy to get it wrong, and why it is important to get it right. They also spend quite a bit of time talking about reconciliation and polarization. Dr. DeVille is the author of Everything Hidden Shall Be Revealed: Ridding the Church of Abuses of Sex and Power. He blogs (prolifically and well) at “Eastern Christian Books.” There’s a bit of ironically timed electronic mischief in the middle, but the worst of it has been edited out. This is the audio from Fr. Anthony’s YouTube livestream (12/21/2020). Professor DeVille’s article on this topic is available here. Full Article
elf Love and Self Righeousness By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2021-12-04T03:36:11+00:00 I want to make clear to everyone that we will not be asking anyone about vaccination status. As in almost all matters, so with government health mandates, it is possible (probable) that very godly, intelligent and well-meaning people will disagree. Let’s not let self righteousness—and her children, fear, anger, and judgement—keep us from loving one another and believing the best of one another, even if we don’t see eye to eye on this or any other political or medical matter. Full Article
elf Self-Importance By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2021-12-23T02:47:40+00:00 Self-importance is a tricky disease to diagnose, not in others, but in oneself. The problem lies in the fact that often (but not always) those who suffer from the spiritual sickness of self-importance are in positions that are actually important. Those of us who teach and/or lead in the Church or in politics or in education or in medicine or in business are indeed in positions of importance. However, it’s not the fact that we are in positions of importance that causes us to suffer from self-importance, but being in such a position does make it much harder for us to diagnose our disease. Full Article
elf Self-Centeredness By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2017-09-05T22:25:40+00:00 Self-centeredness is an act of idolatry, addressed by giving of ourselves and our desires to meet the needs of others. Full Article
elf Fasting in Lent is a Tool, Not an End in Itself By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-02-25T00:38:08+00:00 If we want to approach Lent in a spiritually healthy way that will enable us to participate already in life eternal, we too must offer up ourselves. Full Article
elf Christ's Healing Extends Beyond Self-Help or Willpower By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2021-04-19T23:57:04+00:00 Through the Lord’s great Self-Offering, even the most wretched person may enter into the blessedness of the Kingdom through humble faith and repentance. Even the most notorious sinner may become a glorious saint and shine brightly with eternal glory. Full Article
elf Refuse to be Distracted from Seeing Yourself Clearly in Lent By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2023-02-06T23:55:49+00:00 Now is the time to prepare for a spiritually beneficial Lent that will help us grow in the humility necessary to see ourselves and our neighbors clearly as we reorient our lives toward the great joy of Pascha. Full Article
elf The Mystery of Self-Emptying Divine Love Beyond our Comprehension By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2023-04-10T16:56:07+00:00 Holy Week is not a time for rational theological speculation and argument. It is, instead, a time for entering into the deep mystery of the love of our Lord, of the great “I AM” Who remains infinitely beyond our full comprehension. Full Article
elf Entering into the Joy of the Resurrection Through Selfless Service, not Self-Centered Calculation By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2023-05-01T20:53:31+00:00 The devotion of the Myrrh-Bearers, Joseph, and Nicodemus shows us what true faith looks like, and it has nothing to do with figuring out how to use God to help us get what we want on our own terms in a pathetic attempt to distract ourselves from the fear of death. Full Article
elf On Lepers, Foreigners, and Israel (Twelfth Sunday of Luke and St. Anthony) By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2016-01-15T13:58:47+00:00 Let’s consider the story of the Samaritan leper in terms of God’s love for his one fold, shepherded by Christ our Lord, and foreshadowed in stories and prophecies about Gentiles in the Old Testament. Jesus recognized the thanksgiving of an outcast and heretic in his day; what, then, ought we to think about the descendants of God’s ancient people, Israel? Full Article
elf The God Who Makes Himself Known: James the Brother of God, Sixth Sunday of Luke By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2016-10-20T20:23:42+00:00 The prophet Jeremiah helps us to consider, along with this Sunday’s gospels and epistle, the different ways in which God makes himself intimately known to each of us, and to all of us together, in the Church. (Luke 8:26-39; Gal 1:11-19; Luke 16:19-31; Jeremiah 31:31-34) Full Article
elf Traditions of First Importance: Twelfth Sunday of Matthew/after Pentecost By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-08-27T17:56:22+00:00 This week we consider Paul’s spirited words in 1 Corinthians 15:1-11, seeking to understand the importance of Holy Tradition, the apostles who saw Jesus, the crucifixion, and the resurrection, in the light of Daniel 12, Genesis 49, Exodus 1, and Ezekiel 47-48. Full Article
elf Lighting Up the Apocalypse 33: Hallelujah Choruses, the Bride Who Clothes Herself & the Invitation By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2022-08-05T17:19:08+00:00 This week we read Revelation 19:1-10 in the light of Isaiah 61:10, Genesis 3:21, Matthew 16:27, and 1 Peter 5:5, noting that the praises of God are undergirded by substantial reasons, that we are called to cooperate in our salvation, and that we have been blessed in a way that confers unimaginable dignity upon human beings. Full Article
elf Be Yourself: Amim's Great Discovery By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-01-17T17:59:03+00:00 Be Yourself: Amim’s Great Discovery, written by Stephen Muse, illustrated by Dimitra Psychogiou (Saint Tikhon’s Monastery Press, 2016). Full Article
elf Palm Sunday—Self-Delusion By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2015-09-30T16:46:06+00:00 Fr. Ted explains that there is a huge difference between being popular and being the Son of God. Full Article
elf Know Thyself By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2016-02-28T05:12:52+00:00 Fr. Ted calls us to know the truth about ourselves through the parable of the Publican and the Pharisee. Full Article
elf Selfish Love By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2020-01-25T01:58:28+00:00 Fr. Theodore Paraskevopoulos challenges the selfish love of "an eye for an eye" with the selfless love of Christ. Full Article
elf 153: Metropolitan PHILIP on the Status of Self-Rule in the Archdiocese By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2011-01-05T16:33:02+00:00 Full Article
elf How to Be a Sinner: Discovering Myself as a Sinner By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2019-12-31T22:11:08+00:00 Dn. Michael Hyatt begins a new series in his class going through the book by Dr. Peter Bouteneff entitled How to Be a Sinner. Discovering ourselves as sinners is a first step. Full Article
elf How to Be a Sinner: Reflections on the Self By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2019-12-31T22:16:06+00:00 Dn. Michael Hyatt continues going through the book How to Be a Sinner by Dr. Peter Bouteneff. In this lesson, he speaks about the importance of self-awareness. Full Article
elf How to Be a Sinner: Self Esteem, Self Denial, and Self Love By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2019-12-31T22:17:27+00:00 As sinners, how are we to look at ourselves? Dn. Michael Hyatt continues going through the book How to be a Sinner by Dr. Peter Bouteneff. Full Article
elf The Self-emptying of the Mother of God By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2023-06-15T05:00:00+00:00 In my Protestant days, I had no problem with anyone talking about Mary—so long as it was Christmas. On Boxing Day, that was it. Over. No more talking about Mary. What are we anyway, Catholics? It was understood that when we packed away the Nativity set, all talk of Mary got packed up along with it. And my proof that Bible-believing Christians should not talk about Mary? The New Testament never did. Well, hardly ever did—just long enough to narrate the Christmas story. Was she in the Acts of the Apostles? Not really. Was she in the Epistles? No. So there you go: no talking about Mary or calling her blessed. Full Article
elf “To Thine Own Self Be True” By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2024-06-12T05:00:01+00:00 Many people will (hopefully) identify the above quote as coming from the speech of Polonius in Act 1, Scene 3 of Shakespeare’s Hamlet. It was part of the fatherly talk he gave to his son Laertes before the boy moved away to university. It is now often quoted as a bit of perennial wisdom for life (it was written by Shakespeare, after all). It is not as often known that it was part of a speech that Shakespeare meant to be recognized as almost meaninglessly platitudinous, a kind of Elizabethan “blah-blah-blah, yada-yada-yada”. Full Article
elf How is humility different from simple self-criticism? By www.ancientfaith.com Published On :: 2016-03-18T14:52:36+00:00 Full Article